But, I can tell you from having the virus for 6+ years now, it’s NOT a big deal. I have genital herpes (I even met and dated a guy who also had the virus). to be honest, yeah, its a VERY big deal. aids is worse. but herpes is no better. and it would affect my decision. One of the nurses was telling me that oral herpes can spread even when sores and symptoms are not present, from simply kissing or sharing a drink or utensils. Yeah they are pretty common. Herpes try and pass it off as no big deal, you might have it but not show symptoms etc. Also holy shit that quote from Madness. Herpes (both oral & genital) can be spread even when there are no symptoms or sores. You can also have an outbreak inside your vaginal walls. But as someone who didnt have the choice I always let them know before we even have our first kiss and yeah I have had a lot of heartache and been called some really mean stuff but I still do it. It won’t be a big deal, but honesty is the best policy.
I also found out that 80 of the population has this kind of herpes. I know all these different remedies for it, but I can’t stop feeling bad about it. Yeah – it’s a nuisance but I’ll be honest, once your body gets it under control, you may not get many/any further OB’s. The bigger deal you make out of it, the bigger deal it becomes. He can ask you questions, research it, digest it, but understand that it’s not a big deal. I would also prefer the herpes virus to a TON of other debilitating, life-changing medical conditions!. Nik, I recently saw a post on here that herpes was not a big deal anymore. Cold sores and chicken pox also a form of herpes. Yes, you can be a carrier but not have outbreaks.
I can’t speak for most men, since I’m not them, but it certainly wouldn’t be for me. This is because even people who have never had an outbreak can transmit the virus to their partner. Yeah, Herpes can not be a big deal, but it can also be a big deal. I also told my family I had contracted the cold sore virus. But as time goes on you will accept its not even a big deal. OKay so I found out this past sat that I have HSV 1& 2 yea sucks to be me, and I am trying to wrap my head around this.
Just Got Cold Sore Herpes: Is This A Big Deal?
type Deal and then my mist recent ex, I told him and he treated me like it was the black plague. Also how his chances of getting it really increases if sex occurred when you are having an outbreak which would not occur. We recently broke up for reasons not having to do with HSV and we were together for a bit over 3 yrs. Some people can have HSV 1 but can be asymptomatic (show no signs or symptoms). I can’t have friends that live more than ten miles away from me. Not because I actually thought I had herpes, but because I had never gotten tested for it before and from what I knew it was expensive and inaccurate. I am talking about genital herpes, not oral, I understand that oral herpes isn’t too big of a deal. But evidence has long been growing that herpes can be transmitted even when no lesions are visible. The study also helps explain how genital herpes has become so wildly common, infecting nearly one-fifth of the American adult population, given that it’s hard to imagine many people would want sex while they had the painful nether-regions equivalent of cold sores. (Follow-up post: One Reader’s Response On Herpes: Not Necessarily A Big Deal) Further reading: The American Social Health Association has an excellent FAQ on genital herpes here. She also says that she found dating sites specifically designed for people with herpes which made her think that no one without herpes would ever want her. Which is ridiculous because you can get herpes just from sleeping with one person, as I did. That probably doesn’t seem like that big a deal to some people, but it’s hard when you don’t find that funny at all. Well yeah, especially because I didn’t know whether you had HSV-1 or HSV-2. But it wasn’t just into the diagnosis but also how that can happen, what that experience can be like for somebody, that kind of thing. And then it flowed down the river of thought again because you know, I’d already tread that path and it wasn’t too big of a deal for me. Filed to: our new herpes overlords. It is highly infectious and incurable, but also, like, not a very big deal. Also, the key word up there was primarily the study wants us all to know you can totally get type 1 herpes down there, should someone with an HSV-1 oral cold sore put their mouth on your genitals. Yeah, that’s about it.
I Like A Girl, But She Has Herpes. Is This A Deal Breaker For Most Men?
OK, relax, that means you have herpes, but it’s not such a big deal. Also, it’s only contagious when you have sores, so if you don’t, you don’t have to tell anyone (sure, doctors talk about asymptomatic carriers, but doctors are all idiots who have no idea what they’re talking about). Dude, you can get gonorrhea from fucking a pile of mud. People used to go crazy from it, yeah, but that was hundreds of years ago, you boob, back in scurvy times. I’ve been recently diagnosed with genital herpes, don’t know which type. But I’ve had no sickness, no flu symptoms, no fever, not even mild pain. Yeah, yeah, it’s with you forever. Yeah. It’s not something somebody wants to hear. No matter how much they care about you, it’s like all of a sudden you get very self-interested, and it’s hard not to show that in your face, and still seem caring. I can’t remember who it was, but I have this sense that I slept with somebody and didn’t tell them. But if someone’s saying something really ridiculous about it, I’ll say, you know, it’s not that big a deal. Did you find that a lot more people than you knew also had herpes? If oral hsv 1 isnt a big deal why do people make a big deal over hsv 1 genital being that its less contagious? Also since hsv1 is harder to detect on blood tests than hsv2 is, many folks who have it, don’t test accurately anyways:( if your current partner hasn’t been tested for it, a good idea for him to do so. You can have herpes in your urine but it’s not transmitted that way ( for instance urine left dribbled on a toilet seat or participating in water games ). Marathon Running Done Over Many Yea.
You might also experience flu-like symptoms such as muscle ache, fever, headache, etc during an outbreak. Plus. herpes can be a big deal and pretty dangerous under certain circumstances. So yeah, you won’t die, but having a healthy sex life can be difficult for many. Low-risk HPV causes genital warts, high-risk HPV can cause cancer. Gardasil also prevents infection with HPV types 6 and 11, which cause 90 percent of genital warts. I actually don’t think Herpes is necessarily as big of a deal as people make it, but of course no one wants it in part because it can get in the way of intimacy. Given that herpes is so common, that it can be contracted while wearing a condom, and that outbreaks are for the most part, few and far between (and for some of us, never recur), we’re admittedly offended that people are, well, offended by our infection that is comparatively so fucking benign. You may also like. And, how can an experimenting bisexual lass get lesbian society to take her seriously? This podcast is also brought to you by Stamps.com. Yeah Dan was way too ready to give this woman too much slack that she does not deserve. If you have HSV-1 orally, you probably will not also get it in the genitals. HSV1 (Oral) much prefers the oral region but it can also be contracted in the genital area. I am female. and yea it is present but it doesn’t come back as anything but it is clearly infection (order) redness, burning sometimes when urinating. I want to know more because they just brushed it off as if wasn’t a big deal.didn’t explain anything to me just that I could be my so called fever blisters.